So, I have a boyfriend. At least it seems like i have a boyfriend some of the time. He went away for Thanksgiving and came back on Sunday. We have only talked on the phone for 7 minutes this week.
The funny thing is that most people think that relationships fail for more dramatic reasons. Some people think that him not being a Christian is the worst thing that could possibly happen. Nope. I'd say that the most difficult things are other conflicts.
He's a great guy and I really enjoy spending time with him. He's got 90% of the stuff that I'm looking for in a guy. Maybe it's that he's a bit of an intellectual nerd and doesn't get very emotional. Maybe it's that he's totally used to being single and doesn't really let girls into his heart. But oftentimes I feel a bit too left alone.
I'd like to be a little more inconvenienced and have a little more time demanded of me. We only see each other one or two times a week. It just makes me wonder how important I really am to him. It makes me wonder if I should tell my friends more about him or if I should change my status on Facebook. I just don't know.
Just wondering, how much time do you feel like you need to feel comfortable in a relationship?
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