The Really Sick Jerk answered!!! Here's where it gets interesting.
You have to wonder what kind of a man thinks he can do whatever he wants to a woman just because he is turned on. Playing with my hair was OK. A kiss was OK. Sticking his hand into my bra (really!!) was definitely not OK.
I don't care what Roissy's dumbass blog tells you about game, this kind of behavior makes you a creepy pervert. Ask permission. If she says no, take it seriously. I bet Roissy would actually have far more class than to cop a feel.
What I didn't realize is that what he did was actually a crime according to state laws. He's not just a jerk, he's a criminal. What did this man do wrong? Not only is asking permission a good "idea" it's a neccessity. If someone does not have permission to reach down your dress, well, that's called Sexual Battery. Look it up.
I'm done feeling bad or trying to forget it. When men commit criminal acts, they should be held accountable. And the things he said in his responses only point to his guilt.
When I reported it to the police officer I told her I was afraid that it wouldn't be taken seriously and people told me to forget about it. I said I wasn't even wearing anything suggestive. She said, "I don't care what you were wearing, no one has the right to touch you like that. And besides, you don't want a guy like that doing this to anyone else." I told her that's why I couldn't forget it.
I feel better thinking that something will happen and other women will not be subjected to this. Note that he wants to make it up to me. I hope the investigator sees that as an opportunity for a set up. In some ways that would be cool to confront this Really Sick Jerk in the proper forum--with charges in criminal court.
See part 1.
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