Alot of women won't "settle" for Mr. Alright. They only want a Mr. Right--well, I don't know about that. It seems like they want a Mr. Perfect. I don't. No really.
Some have not been reading my blog for long enough. I am looking for someone who does what he says he will do. Many of the men I have gone out with have not been able to meet a basic requirement--
Do what you say you will do.
If you say you are going to call, do it.
If you say you will take me out, do it.
If you say you respect me, then let's take our time.
Many relationships have been stalled just in email. You know how it is. Match.com, you seem interested in each other...then suddenly he says he has a family tragedy. Or he's sending fake cut and pasted French poetry and not calling. People tell you "don't think like that" when you are just calling it how you see it. But, the truth comes out. No dice. No phone call.
Some guys starts Facebooking you about going out sometime. When you write to him to ask simple questions about the deets and what kind of music he likes so you can invite him to something suited to his taste...he doesn't even repond, so you unfriend him because you weren't really friends and don't want to waste time with someone who won't follow through.
Fish or cut bait. It's simple. No follow through? Sorry. I just don't have time for that. Who does?
A guy can't even be Mr. Alright if he's doing things that aren't even alright. Mr. Alright might not be the best looking guy with the best job, but he's at least attractive (to me) and he's a good guy.
So yeah, unlike some of those girls on the Dr. Phil show, my requirements are really basic. And let me tell you, he's not some pot-smoking, alchoholic, doesn't-call-me-when-he-says-loser.
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