I'm coming to the point in my life--a point that many of us have been coming to--of wondering what our lives should be if we never find the one (or anyone). I've been told time and again by Christians and non-Christians that I don't need to be married. The thing is that I had planned on being a wife and a mom. Other than wanting to be an opera singer for a time, I didn't focus on a career because I was going to be a wife and a mom. I used to imagine the conflict of continuing a career vs. getting married. I had people tell me they thought it was sad when I said I should learn how to be my own husband, but here I am four years later--still single. I wanted to be a choir teacher but it didn't work out.
What should I do?
What do I really want to do?